By Bill Brioux

This article is from the September 2018 Issue of Forever Young

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“Smitten.”That’s how it seemed, at least, when Betty White met Allen Ludden.

Now 96, White was recently saluted as the “First Lady of Television” on a PBS documentary special (available for streaming this month at The beloved “The Mary Tyler Moore Show” and “Golden Girls” star met her future husband

Allen Ludden when she guested on “Password” in 1961. The popular daytime game show had many incarnations, but it was Ludden’s long tenure as host most boomers remember.

Even though those early “Password” clips are in black and white, you can almost see White blush on her early appearances with Ludden. “I actually think the audience saw the sparks before they saw the sparks,” says Steve Boettcher, the producer and co-director of the documentary.

“Password” involved celebrity panelists giving clues to participants in hopes they would win money by guessing the secret word. Frequent guest White was among the best cluegivers at the game.

On one episode, as the series was wrapping up for the season, Ludden leaned in and asked White if she had anything planned for the summer.

White briefly stammered and then teased with, “What did you have in mind?”

“I think that was the moment that started cementing their relationship,” says Boettcher. As White put it, ”There just was a warmth and a rapport … we dug each other a lot.”

By Travis Schneider and Kattelin Mitchell

This article is from the August 2018 Issue of Forever Young

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How do I choose the right career for me and find meaningful work?
How do I explain large gaps in my work history? I am nervous that my previous work experience is no longer relevant.
How can I sharpen my skills for the job market, including my computer skills?
My networking and interview skills are rusty. How can I improve them?
Do I have to target my resume for each employer? Can’t I just hand out the same one to all employers?
How has the labour market changed since I last looked for work?

These are just some of the questions that job seekers have been facing here in the Central Okanagan. Here at KCR - Community Resources, our Employment Services team works with job seekers to address these issues and others to help them secure meaningful work.

When looking for work, it is important to find the right fit: a position that you feel passionate about. This will lead to your increased happiness and capacity to do the job well and, therefore, employers will also be more satisfied with your work. KCR’s Employment programs include many different assessment tools to help you discover what type of jobs would be a good fit for you. Our Facilitators work together with the group to help them self-discover what is important to them.

One program participant said "I have been out of the workplace for far too long and I became afraid to go back to work due to many barriers; but KCR's Essential skills course is the very excellent move I made to confront those fears." Our team will work together with program participants to help build up their confidence and explain gaps in their employment history. Participants who have been out of the workforce for as long as 20 years have been able to discover their hidden talents, realize how much they have to offer the community, and secure meaningful work as a result of attending KCR Employment programs.

At KCR you can continue to learn and sharpen your skills through our 7-week in-class programs as well as gain short-term training certificates relevant to your career path. Our past participants have appreciated the opportunity to increase their skills; "I want to thank you for teaching the Essential Skills for College and Trades training program. Over the course time and the subsequent job mentoring, I was encouraged and strengthened in not only my math, literacy and computer skills but also in my confidence and esteem."

“You can always improve on your networking and interview skills” says Travis Schneider, Employment Services Manager. “The labour market in the Central Okanagan relies heavily on face-to-face communication. Although it can seem scary to go out and market yourself to a potential employer, we make it fun and we help you practice in a comfortable setting.” As part of our programs, we help our participants step by step to build and improve their networking skills. We even offer a videotaped mock interview session so you can see what you look like in an interview setting. With this in-depth understanding of the interview process and how to best respond to those difficult questions, participants increase their confidence and, in turn, receive more job offers.

A targeted resume caters to a specific job posting, showcasing that you have taken the time and effort to create a resume specifically for that employer. “Employers constantly come back to us saying how much they value the amount of relevant details they find in our participants’ resumes,” says Travis Schneider. “If you have an extensive work history, we work with you to decide what work experience helps best set you up for attaining that job. It is difficult for an employer to read an 8-page resume and figure out what work experience is relevant to the position.” Our programs are designed to teach you the skills to write effective resumes that employers want to read, which then results in an invitation for an interview.

By Anne Bokma

This article is from the July 2018 Issue of Forever Young

FYng July 2018 Feature Image VictoriaB.C.’s capital city, long touted as a prime spot for “newlyweds, nearly- deads and flower beds,” is attracting Canadians of all ages, thanks in part to a booming tech sector that’s drawing young people and a year-round mild coastal climate (imagine just two annual sprinklings of snow) that’s enticing anyone who’d rather snorkel than shovel the white stuff.

A building boom is evident in the cranes that compete with seagulls up in the air and the constant buzz of construction on the streets down below.

The place is buzzing in other ways too. Conde Nast named it the second best small city in the world (after San Miguel de Allende, Mexico), “Travel + Leisure” lists it as one of the top 10 cities in the world, “The New York Times” calls it one of the world’s top small urban destinations and Amazon Canada hails it as the country’s most romantic city. With Pacific Ocean views, Washington’s Olympic Mountains in the distance and an abundance of green spaces, is it any wonder people are clamouring to come here?

A move to Victoria might not be possible, but a visit is. Here are nine ways to make the most of your time on this island destination:

Hit the Inner Harbour

Order a platter of fresh local oysters on the patio of the landmark Steamship Terminal and watch the visiting yachts, water taxis, ferries, whale-watching boats and floatplanes come and go in a beautiful waterfront setting located smack in the centre of the city. (Vancouver is a 90 minute ferry ride away; Seattle is three hours.)

Dine like royalty

The famously stout Queen Victoria, the city’s namesake, favoured a bountiful selection of food and the tantalizing gastronomic pleasures of restaurants such as Nourish Kitchen and Cafe (which makes wholesome dishes using ingredients from its own backyard garden) and The Marina Restaurant (where you can feast on an unforgettable oceanfront view as well as fancy seafood and regional cuisine) would have thrilled this royal known for her 50-inch waist.

By William Thomas

This article is from the June 2018 Issue of Forever Young

They’re dressing them up, they’re making them over and in the process they’re wearing real dog lovers down. There goes a sheep dog with his legs and ears dyed black and his eyes heavily made up with mascara to make him look like a panda bear. It’s the latest fad in grooming circles – making over your dog to look like a wild animal. Wearing vegetable-based dye, mini-spray cans, coloured chalk and water-soluble glue, owners and groomers can make Sparky look like a bear, a snake or even a dinosaur. I’m not making this stuff up.In China, in this the year of the tiger, there are an unusual number of golden retrievers being dyed orange with black and white stripes to look like the ferocious felines. I saw a photo of one such made-up retriever at the opening of a pet park in Zhengzhou, China and he doesn’t look majestic or dangerous. He looks stupid. He looks like his agent talked him into playing the role of a transvestite pooch in a Will Ferrell movie.

Followers of this transforming trend characterize it as “pawsitively” fun and “an unusual hobby.” No, an unusual hobby is collecting ear mite amputees. Spray-painting stripes on your dog until it looks like a dingo is the worst idea in the pet world since choke collars.

Thousands of North American pet owners are dressing up their pets for Halloween, for Christmas, for Easter and for no particular reason and displaying their photos on websites. There’s a picture of a pug dressed up as a gunslinger with cowboy hat and boots, gun and holster. He looks like he really could kill somebody. Namely and rightly so, the lug nut who dressed him up!

Another small dog looks completely embarrassed in an Easter bunny bodysuit with floppy ears while a cat dressed up in a Santa suit looks like he’s going to rake the nose of the woman holding him as soon as he gets out of those black leather boots.

It’s like there’s nothing good on TV, let’s turn Sparky into Napoleon Bonaparte.

I am absolutely opposed to dying or dressing up pets. Okay, once John Grant and I decorated his huge Husky named Nukey with deer antlers and we attached one of those safety flashers to his ass that beeped when he backed up. And yes, it was hysterical but we’d had a few drinks and when it was over we promised never to do it again.

No, unless it’s a sweater to keep him warm or snow boots to protect his pads, pets do not need clothes. Apparently what they really need is ...

By Glenna Turnbull

This article is from the May 2018 Issue of Forever Young

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"The bell is ringing, time to line up – you mustn’t be tardy! The teacher will be here any moment to lead us all into the Williams Creek schoolhouse – oh, and don’t forget to take off your hat."

Welcome to Barkerville, where history comes to life, complete with an authentic schoolteacher who expects you to remember your manners!

Walking into Barkerville is like getting to fall straight into an 1870s Western. With more than 125 heritage buildings to explore, you’ll find over 200,000 items featured in their authentic displays, museums, shops, restaurants, and out buildings. You’ll also find special events and even a chance to get educated in the old schoolhouse.

For those who aren’t as keen on being educated inside a schoolhouse, you can learn all about things like the Cornish Waterwheel, how deep shaft placer mining works, or visit the local blacksmith. >>

“We’ve got approximately 45 actors,” says Ed Coleman, CEO of Barkerville Historic Town and Park, “who do about 15 different types of interpretive performances.”

“All of the living interpretation shows are free to enjoy with the price of admission,” notes Ed, “and your admission is good for two days because there’s so much to see and do, we feel people need at least two days to take it all in. Lots of people stay for a whole week.”

In addition to the actors dressed in period costumes that you’ll find on the grounds, there is also a theatre on site called the Theatre Royale. “This summer we’ll have two different shows,” notes Ed. “The first is full of singing and dancing and little skits, called Mrs. McGinley’s Variety Show, and the second one is a 1940s radio show.”

In order to keep things running smoothly in the old town site, they rely heavily on volunteers. “We have a group called Friends of Barkerville that has about 150 people in it. They help us with events and raising funds for specific projects. They also help to promote us as well as volunteering on site,” says Ed. “We also have the community of Wells and Bowron Lake who participate in events and come give us a hand.”

If you’ve never been to Barkerville before, you might be surprised to discover it has one of the oldest heritage Chinatowns in North America. “Half of Barkerville’s population, about 2500 people, were Chinese citizens that came from the Guangdong Province in China,” notes Ed. “We do a Chinese Autumn Moon festival every August and have an ongoing Chinese interpretive program.”

New this year, Ed says, they’ll be introducing an Indigenous program. “We’re starting a five year Indigenous program as the Indigenous population became involved in Barkerville in the early 1900s.”

Also new this summer, they’ll be constructing an interpretive mining tunnel. Ed says, “People will be able to experience what it was like to go down a mining tunnel”

In addition to all the free activities and interpretive shows, there are several extra activities you can do for an additional fee, such as panning for gold or going on a stagecoach ride.

“We have planned events throughout the summer, such as a Cowboy Drover Festival, an annual Indigenous Day celebration and a Canada Day celebration,” says Ed, so it’s best to check the website to find out all that’s going on.

For those wanting to travel to Barkerville, please note, pets are not allowed on the grounds. There is a self-serve lock-up kennel where you can leave your dogs at a cost ranging from $5 to $15 per day, depending on the size of the cage. Only service dogs are permitted in the town site.